CRUSH

Love is more like a disease,a disease with no cure.love can be anything it wants to including dangerous.But there is one disease that to me its more dangerous than love

…CRUSH…so what is this crush thing? Well having a crush on somebody means that you have developed a strong desire for that person. many people mistake this with love because the feeling is almost always the same.Yes having a crush on someone can grow to true love but rarely does this happen.Many will ask why it can’t happen and here is the reason why,you may have a crush on someone who even when heaven came down you cant have. lets take an example your crush is deeply in love with someone else and they are happy and not matter what happens they cant separate.So in that situation you nobody else but her fan.You are literally a hyena who thinks clouds are meat chunks and you spend your time swallowing saliva waiting for them to fall and in real sense they can’t,they even don’t know someone is watching them.

A crush can make you do some stupid and silly things.And i bet everyone has done and if you lie you haven’t see your life.We have all had that moment when we have our phones or on our laptops the only thing we think of is stalking our crushes, checking their whatsapp profile pictures and status,their instagram stories and posts,reading their profile on facebook,checking their comments on group chats.And even worse checking their schedules or class timetables.some even go to an extent of getting their pictures an d adding them as their wall papers.Basically we do the work of undercover detectives on our crushes. we collect every piece of information we can get on the and keep a record of their activities. Now if we can do all that detective work and we aren’t trained detectives,what if we are trained how much “damage”can we do to our crushes? food for thought.

You are chilling with your friends and then all of a sudden you notice your crush walking by,noises of every creature around you come to silence and all you can hear is breath of your crush and every little sound she makes.That is the moment you now see yourself walking by her side holding her hand and her body close to you and then you are like “yea motherfuckers i got her she is all mine, and you gonna do nothing about it”  yea once found myself in such situation and its so disappointing  when you come back to your senses and realize it was more like a dream. So what runs through your mind when you see your crush? Here is what every guy thinks when they have a crush on girl:

1. We could be great together-this is the part where you see yourself introducing her to your parents,to your friends, marrying her and having a family together and having all the fun together.
2. she is damn perfect-you are looking at your crush as she walks or when she is standing and you are like” look at her smile,her legs,her curvy shape, damn she is so fine” and then you friends make a mistake of saying something negative about her,that’s the point where you even fight them just to defend her.
3. I wonder if she feels the same way like me-here people get emotional  which is totally human.meaning we care allot about our crush. we even go to an extent of asking them what’s disturbing them when we see them sad.
4. Is that guy her brother? -here is where a guy gets totally jealous and paranoid.He gets the notion that his crush is in love with someone else and is going to get married.
5. Will i do something wrong?– guys always to impress their crushes so that they can notice them so they  are always careful with everything they do  not to mess up and revise everything they do to make sure they din’t mess.
6. Why did she say that– take it that you said something to your crush and she replied. you seriously analyze her reply with allot of questions and answers.
7. what is she doing now– when your crush is not around where you can see her, you are always thinking about what she is doing or who she is with and get so worried.

SO, who has never had such kind of thoughts, well if you haven’t my brother you are in the wrong place.And if you crush is taken, sorry brother, don’t loose hope streams turn into rivers so the future is still alive, and until that day she is single,good luck with waiting for that day.